Now that I have date – help!

Now that I have date – help!
Dating is tricky and awkward at best. If you are out with someone for the first time that you don’t really know, it should be a little awkward. Not painfully so – but if he is really smooth, umm hello – he’s smooth for a reason. He’s had way too much practice! He probably only goes on first dates! Or only goes on dates long enough to get you to sleep with him. The rule ladies, is respect yourselves and trust your instincts.
If you don’t think you have good instincts, read, “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin de Becker immediately! (Please don’t think I am expecting you to run out and buy a million books. Go to the library – right now! If you don’t like to read they have DVD’s, CD’s and books on tape and CD. It is free and if you live in a city you can usually make your request on-line and then pick up your holds without looking through the endless stacks!). He basically says that if you think someone is creepy, they probably are. Run away!